I've being with my girlfriend for two years. We have a great connection, but she's a very negative person. She drains me emotionally. I'm tired of helping her when she clearly isn't trying to help herself. Am I selfish to want better?
Part of the reason why I don't know how to tell him is because I don't want him to love me differently. I also don't want him to start expecting threesomes, even though I want to have them. I'm not sure what to do.